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November
4
2008

Will you still love me tomorrow?

I’m home sick today, most likely due to being smashed underground for hours with a bunch of strangers on Friday. Usually, I’d feel crazy-guilty but I’ve this is only the 4th sick day I’ve taken this year out of the 10 we’re allowed. Since our sick days don’t accrue, I opted to spend the day beneath quilts drinking tea. And as a goodly chunk of us at the C-P may be laid off on 12/3, a sick day isn’t going to make a drop of difference.

When WM came home from school we meandered over to vote. Our polling place is in the same building as our apartment’s fitness center, which is very convenient. There were 2 machines. One was occupied by a lady who couldn’t figure out how to vote (I have NO patience that. They send out sample ballots with voting instructions ahead of time. There are instructions RIGHT on the machine. READ THEM!). The other was empty.

It was pretty scary how easy it was to get signed in. The poll worker asked for my last name. I gave them Dowd. She couldn’t find it in the book. Then I realized it was Turberville on my sample ballot - yet another thing I forgot to change. She found me under Turberville and I signed in. I didn’t have to recite my address, show ID, nothing. NOTHING! I think you should have to show ID to vote. That’s not suppressing a right to vote, it’s common sense. Just sayin’.

I voted for John McCain.

For months now I have sat quietly and listened to people (many of whom I know and value as friends) rant and rave about how HORRIBLE Republicans are and how STUPID McCain voters must be and how it’s so RACIST to call into question some of Obama’s connections. Not a week has gone by at work where my political beliefs haven’t been mocked openly by people who sit as close as 3 cubicles away. Not a week has gone by without a Facebook friend posting a anti-Republican article or joining an anti-McCain or anti-Palin hate group.

Not to say the (R) team hasn’t had their shining moments of pure bile and vitriol (Obama’s ideas are not socialist, geez!) - this has been a hateful campaign on both sides. And I’m tired of it. I’m tired of being depicted a monster and I’m tired of having to defend myself.

I am not against hope. I am not against change - I don’t like the way things are now. I am not racist, and I think Obama will make a fantastic president once he gets a bit more experience under his belt. In January, 2009, he will have been in the Senate for 4 years of a 6 year term, and he will have spent 2 of those years spent running for President! If the ticket was Biden-Obama, I’d have voted for it in a heartbeat, even though Obama broke his pledge to take the public campaign financing.

Likewise, if McCain (who signed the bailout bill, even though it’s chock full of the earmarks and pork he claims to be against) had chosen Kay Bailey Hutchinson as his veep candidate my decision would have been so much easier.

In the end I voted for John McCain based on his experience and because I think he’ll do better at getting our guys and girls out of this Mid-East mess safely. I read the issues, I watched the conventions and some of the debates. I believe the economy will right itself, but I don’t believe we should rely on the government to take care of us. We can be our brother’s keeper without the government forcing us to. And it’s easier for me to send money to charity each month when we’re not being taxed to death. I believe Congress will remain heavily Democratic, thereby preventing a super-conservative judge from being appointed to the supreme court.

Will my vote matter? Not this time. I am one red dot in a sea of blue in NJ. I think Obama’s going to take it all. Am I upset about that? No. In reality, he’s not going to ruin us as much as McCain & friends want us to think. He’s bright and articulate and young and hopeful. He has a lovely wife and cute kids He better pony up and get them their damn dog.

And if Obama wins, my job and my Facebook page will be much nicer to be around.

In other voting news, I voted for Dick Zimmer over Frank Lautenberg, Dale Glading over the liar Rob Andrews, and the non-incumbent Camden County Freeholders. If I were in California, I’d have voted NO on Prop 8.

Back under the quilts with me. Wake me when this election is over.

I turned comments off. Not because I can’t take them - Lord knows I’ve had enough people yelling at me about this for months - but because I can’t take you all fighting with each other. I’m fond of all of you, no matter what.

Forgot to turn comments off. Remember, everyone follow the example of the first 5 comments and be nice. :)

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9 Responses to “Will you still love me tomorrow?”

  1. Brian Z. Says:

    Make it two red dots. I too voted for McCain, for most if not all of the reasons you very nicely articulated. I too will be facing bad, bad reaction from people I love and respect. Ah well.

  2. Tommy Says:

    I think you forgot to turn comments off. Let me know how things turn out in New Jersey. I will personally celebrate if any Republican wins in the Garden State.

  3. Stephanie Says:

    I’m home sick today, too. Hope you’re feeling better soon. I’m glad you were able to get out there and vote. After a couple of naps, I finally made it to the polls and cast my vote - for Obama. I am sorry that there are those who cannot respect your opinions. I understand, too. Nearly everyone I know in the supposedly Dem state of mine, is a Republican and a lot of them reallllly want to debate and berate me. We’re all entitled to our opinions, and we should all be respectful of the opinions of others. You’re setting a great example. :-)

  4. Dave aka d.mo Says:

    Being in CA we’ve been saturated with the pro- and anti-Prop 8 signs and commercials since Day 1. And I’m voting NO on it, which also means Obama will be my choice for President since Palin openly admitted she is against same-sex marriage.

    Will I regret either decision later? Only time will tell, but I’m just glad I have the right to partake in my country’s electoral process, the one time when we’re all equal. And that’s what matters most.

  5. Dave aka d.mo Says:

    Oh, and as far as the (nasty) comments go, remember that this is the presidential election and not the new Harry Potter book ;)

  6. Kimberly Says:

    Oh. I did not turn comments off. Why didn’t that work? This is why I stay home from work when my brain is fuzzy. I can only ruin my own site. May as well take out that line, huh?

    Holy crap…I forgot about the Harry Potter wars. (shudder)

  7. Tommy Says:

    Ladygypsy has always been fair in her views…i agree…lets all be nice too!

  8. lex Says:

    I had a rough day yesterday. I voted for the GOP in two races, and the Democrats in two races. My guy won just one of the four races. In the ballot measures, two of my three yes votes lost, and the other is too close to call. Five of the eight I voted against as passing.

  9. PeterG Says:

    Hi Kim, Hope you feel better soon and the safe-job fairy keeps hovering around you.

    I think that Obama will be a very good president, but only time will tell. It will be nice to have someone in the WH who is bright, articulate and cares about those of us making under $250K ( Yes, I’m not there yet !). Here in NC we had early voting for about 10 days before 11/4 and it was great, very few lines. Here’s an interesting snippet, this is the first time since 1952 that there won’t be either a Dole or Bush in government !…..


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